Whenever you pull away and retreat to that quiet place in the Lord. You'll face the authentic you, confrontation with self-reflection of the inward you.
You will realize all anger, disappointment, fears and frustration 100% is our own fault. It comes from the reaction of being rejected. The feelings of not being accepted from the ones we grown to love. Why our fault? Because they all are emotions and our emotions can be brought under subjection.
No one, I mean no one should have that much control where they can alter our heart & emotions, the only one we should allow our heart to be in full subjection to is God.
When we leave our heart unguarded and entrusted with the wrong people (the rejected/the wounded) 9 times out of 10 that person, that wounded you have been hurt, wounded or rejected.
If we speak honestly we can say the majority of us have been rejected and wounded, but have we been healed from those wounds of rejection? At times we have to get alone with the Lord, retreat and allow him to enlighten us on the position of our heart to make sure we not repeating the cycle of bitterness. #therejectedwillreject #thewoundedwillwound #
Hebrews 12:14-15 NLT
Work at living in peace with everyone, and work at living a holy life, for those who are not holy will not see the Lord. Look after each other so that none of you fails to receive the grace of God. Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many.